Telling a child that he must be number one in every subject leads him to believe that anything less is unsatisfactory. These children who are disciplined too harshly will become insecure teenagers and anxious adults (Extreme Parenting). Kwan Lee is the father of a student attending OCT. She says, “The kids on 'Tiger Moms' are too programmed. They get into a good university, but they don't know what to do next,” (Yi). These children lack initiative because decisions have been made for them by their parents (Extreme Parenting). This leads to feelings of insecurity during college