Some people feel very harsh and experience extremely high stress in dealing with the problem. Not only do they feel stressed about this, but they also want to hide behind the wall and don't want to solve this problem. That's the big deal because failure isn't shame. If they solve the problem, the weakness becomes a strength. If you are truly afraid of something, your subconscious wants it to happen to end the fear. By going straight into fear, you can save yourself from unconscious self-sabotage. Push yourself to contemplate the worst case scenario, make contingency plans (CNN, 2009). So be confident in talking about the problem. Develop a strategy and tactics. Dealing with people. other people are a problem. Too often we become reactive and defensive, or potentially manipulated by people who exploit our insecurities. However, it is possible to deal with difficult people once we have “developed our compassion” (CNN, 2012) and we also need to listen carefully when other people express an opinion. Good communication comes from listening and speaking. the speaker makes sure that the family members understand it clearly and the listener also makes sure that they understand it clearly without any doubt. And try to understand its meaning